When we were young, and we got introduced to the world of sex and all the different sexual activities, there was one word, one term that was used as something unreachable, incredible, unimaginable. Something, we all knew what it was, but none of us actually experienced it. The term we’re talking about is A THREESOME - a sexual act involving three people, obviously. It was something like THE HOLY GRAIL to all the young, well, mostly boys. So, let me explain what it is.
What Is A Threesome?
A threesome, in human sexuality, is a sexual act between three people. It can also be called a ménage à trois if you want to French it up.
A threesome may be heterosexual or bisexual, involving either couples seeking men or couples seeking girls. It can also be homosexual, involving three women or three men. All the above is what all the definitions say, but you can’t explain it with words, you need to try it. You need to feel the warmth of other human bodies, sexual tension you can actually cut through the air with a knife. It is a different experience from anything you have ever tried before. It makes you feel like God and a slave all at once.
It can make your head pump hard, and adrenalin fueling so strong into your body that you will feel like you’re in Heaven. It’s a liberating experience that changes you, and you won’t think about sex the same way ever again, and why should you?
After all of this, we’re pretty sure you’re wondering how to find a threesome partner? The easiest way is to do it online, but before you start searching, make sure your partner is on board with the idea.
How To Find Threesome Online?
No matter if you are looking for a serious relationship, friends with benefits arrangement, a one-night stand, the internet has always been there to help people find each other. The same goes for a threesome, there are many threesome dating sites & apps on the internet that can help you in achieving exactly what you desire.
Let’s start with the apps that will help you find a threesome partner as soon as possible.
Tinder
You may have used Tinder before but if you’re in a relationship and looking for a third person for a naughty threesome then it’s incredibly easy to connect with people. On Tinder, you can select your sexual preference and which gender you’re most interested in dating. Moving forward it’s important to have images of both you and your partner and to express explicitly in your bio what you’re looking for so you don’t surprise or confuse people.
Tinder is perfect for a couple seeking men to join them. This is because this app is much more popular with the male population.
3Hook
3Hook is one of the most popular threesome dating apps for couples looking for a female third, swingers, bisexuals and cuckold. You can join the app as a single person or as a couple and create a profile that details exactly what you’re looking for. 3Hook also has a fun Moments tool which works in a similar way to Instagram Stories in that it lets people share more up-to-date details.
Feeld
Feeld is one of the best dating apps to use if you want to explore your desire for a threesome but don’t want everyone knowing about it. With a super stringent privacy policy, you can create a profile for yourself then link with your partner if you are looking for a third or search for couples looking for a threesome without your Facebook friends being able to see that your profile is linked to Feeld. With multiple options for sexual orientations and gender, Feeld aims to be an inclusive and open environment in which you can explore your desires.
Fantasy Match
Fantasy Match is a platform where you can discuss desires and curiosities in a safe space. Built on the pillars of safety and health, the app promotes the idea that exploring new experiences and fantasies is healthy as long as you do it in a way that’s respectful to others and you know your boundaries. Being honest about what you want and listening to others is key.
3Somer
If you feel ready to take the first step into finding a partner for a threesome but still want a little bit of familiarity, 3Somer works in the same way as many other mainstream dating apps. Whether you are single or in a relationship, you can create a profile and start matching with other people in your area looking for the same thing. The app will allow you to specify what you’re into in the bedroom as well as your sexual preferences. The most common search term when it comes to singles is an MMF threesome, surprisingly!
The internet also offers a lot of information on locations of swinger bars in your city, and if you dig a little dipper, meet the right people, you can also get invited to secret swinger parties nearby. It all depends on how much do you want it. It’s ideal for a couple seeking women to join them.
Rules Of A Threesome
Having a threesome isn’t just three people meeting, taking off their clothes and engaging in steamy action. If you’re in a relationship and you decided to include a third person in your bedroom, there are a few rules you should include to have the best possible experience. These rules aren’t meant to stand in the way of having the time of your life, but create a safe environment where both you and your partner will equally enjoy the satisfaction this kind of kinky engagement brings.
Make The Right Choices
You need to make sure that the person you are about to include in your sex life is the right match for both you and your partner. People say that beggars can’t be choosers, but it is really important to find a third person that is completely compatible with you and with your partner.
Safety Should Always Be Your Top Priority
No matter how exciting the threesome can get, you need to think about the risks that such an act brings. This goes especially if you are in this with a stranger.
Make Your Sex Checklist
It is always helpful to have some sort of scenario, so things don’t get messy and you know which are your boundaries. Some couples will have no penetration rule, some will have no kissing, there is also a version of a third person being a spectator, and he or she gets turned on by only watching you and your partner having sex. Having someone else in the room watching you and your partner engage in some wild action can be unbelievably arousing!
Always Have A Safe Word
Having a safe word in a threesome can be helpful if you or your partner get distracted and forget about the rules you made. It’s much more common to have a safe word there’s BDSM included, but people having a threesome for the first time also use it. Hopefully, it will never get to that, but better to be safe than sorry.
The most important thing is to have fun, do how you feel and embrace what you wish. It’s not that hard to find a third person to join you in exploring your wildest fantasies! This life is about discovering yourself, so enjoy it!
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